It is already the 3rd day in May of 2010. Where does time go?

This morning I’ve been thinking about the idea of being bold and what I should be learning out of  this project. Am I a bold individual? I ask this of myself and my answer is yes and no.

For instance, would I jump out of a plane and sky dive my way back to earth? Probably not. Would I eat worms on a dare? Definitely not. Would I stand up for my inner-truths even if it meant death? Maybe…hopefully yes…but then again maybe I’d wimp out in the end.

My quest to be bold easily extends to my everyday actions which may include — do I work out or not. Yes! I’ll do it! Or will I apply myself to my work and give it my all? Yes for sure, I’m in! But these things are mildly bold.

I want to be bold in my thoughts and actions, yet sometimes I’m just a plain wimp. I worry about the people I love, I fear that I’ll never add up to much of anything, I get caught up in my fears that the economy is going to plunge again and take me down with it, I look in the mirror and see wrinkles springing up and cringe, and my list goes on.

Am I bold? Today…maybe not. Tomorrow…hopefully so. The next day, who knows? I’m starting to keep a list of the thoughts I have that keep me from making bold choices in life.

On my way to the coffee shop I’m now sitting at in Gothenburg, Sweden, I made a list that included:

1. I would love to own my own house, but what if it never happens.

2. Finishing a book or even writing one that appeals to people may never occur.

3. What is my purpose on this earth anyway? Is there one?

The truth is. I’ve always wanted to live an adventurous life. I crave. I hope. Something inside of me is seeking something grand. Yet my limiting thoughts at times get the best of me. Being human is a tough enterprise.

A friend of mine sent out an email to a bunch of people and something that he said jumped out at me just before I started this post:

Yet, when you remain blinded by need, the need for self-importance, your inability to pierce the veil will remain.  Then, you will only see the limitations of another–the mask, the illusion that they project upon time and space.  And, you will only experience your own limitation that seeks an audience for acknowledgment.

Hmm…Bob, what are you trying to tell me? The world? Am I to look away from my limitations and then I’ll find happiness?

He answers:

We must learn to be in this world as if we are a traveler, a passerby.  To reach and grasp that which happens in this life reaches and grasps an image, the image we hold.  It is what we might call the perfect life.  And when that images passes without being fulfilled we are left with an opinion that binds us.  And, it is this opinion that causes the mask, the illusion that continues to bind you to form believing that you are this body/mind expression.  You will become deceived as this distortion will bind you to itself.

Holy shite!! Ok so, my quest for boldness. Maybe it should include more letting go than grasping for boldness. Maybe it should include more smelling the roses and smiling, or more writing for the sake of my love for writing — not for a result.

Bob? Any more wisdom you can lend here?

To lift yourself free you must first lift yourself from yourself.  Oh yes, a daunting task as everything you think you are is bound to the belief’s and fears; hopes and regret that you sustain out of “necessity.”

We must learn to be: free from conditioning (determinism), free from opinion, free from the prison of our self-image, free from our notion of being an individuality, and most importantly free from the need for freedom..

It’s strange how we grapple with things and then the answers arrive when we’d least expect them. I’ve been searching for boldness and have woken up lately feeling that I’m behind the curve — and today it reached a head as I rode on the tram. And then Bob’s email arrived for me to see less than an hour ago.

My search for boldness needs to be more of an acceptance — and less of striving fest — I need to bask in the perfection of the moment and apply my skills to the world as I can. One step at a time. I can’t scramble for and grasp onto freedom. I must release it all to the winds of destiny and continue to walk my walk.

That’s what I’ll do…

– Post by Jen of Project BE Bold

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